12.30.2004

It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing, that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about. Dale Carngie True..the more u think about things, the more problems will plague u. And yet by not thinking, do u think u'll be truly happy? Do u feel happy now? U can be feeling happy now, but actually u're sad. Are we lying to ourselves by not thinking? Hahahha! What am I doing!! What is happiness? And how do we attain it? In my opinion, there's no standard guidelines to teach u how does it feel to be happy, or how to be happy. Feeling happy can be a sudden adrenaline rush that makes u high, or it can just simply be you feeling satisfied. It's actually up to our perceptions. A quarrel w a loved one can be seen as a crack in the bond. But if u shift yr perceptions, it can be a chance to let u understand each other better and be closer. OK, bad bad example. I don't know, I feel the way you see things affects yr moods. There are many perceptions or angles u can see in one thing. If u stubbornly stick to one knowing there's many, u're going to make your life and other's lives very difficult. I believe in looking at things in many different ways to make things easier for yourself and everyone. Even if it requires u to think extra. Why not? Don't be selfish. Well, at least I'm happy when everyone else is happy. Guess i'm a utilitarian.


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